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BUDDHIST SANGHA OF BUCKS COUNTY

MEETING AT FRIENDS , 65 N.MAIN ST, YARDLEY

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C/O JAMES REIS, 2227 POLO RUN DRIVE, YARDLEY 19067 215 431 0882

 

Meditation   every Monday evening at 7 PM,    Thursday mornings from 6 to 7 AM 

 

Discussion -The Three Refuges, cont. – February 23,  after Meditation  8 to 9 PM    Please bring snacks to share

 

On Saturday, February 21 join a fun day of peaceful activities at Yardley Friends , hosted by the Buddhist Sangha of Buck County, in association with the Yardley Quaker Meeting of Yardley. 1:30 to 3:30 PM at the Yardley Friends Meetinghouse, 65 North Main Street in Yardley. All are welcome, bring a friend.  No fee. Family activities for adults and children, discourse, discussion, stories, refreshments, music, fun for all ages.  For info 215 750 7220 ext 15 or 267 679 0617  or email caroline@thepeacecenter.org  

Activities will include talks on the homeless in Bucks County and what our community can do to help, “Limiting Small Arms”, Turning Enemies into Friends”,  and workshops on Parenting Wisdom.  Jonathan Sprout will lead a musical celebration and compose songs of Peace.  Children’s programs include art work and Worm Composting ( fun for adults too )  and beneficial bugs for a Green Planet.

  Sponsored by the Coalition for Peace Action, the Interfaith Community for Middle East Peace, and the Peace Center.

Hosted  by the Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County . We will be providing refreshments that day, please consider donating some extra goodies to eat for this event.

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Socks for the  Salvation Army .   Last year we collected shoes and our drive was very successful and appreciated by the recipients. This year we are requesting sock donations. Please consider donating new pairs of socks to the Lower Bucks Salvation Army, we will be collecting them in the lobby of Friends. You may leave them in the food donation box or give them directly to Marilyn Piciotti.

 

Thanks to those who have been supplying teas and snacks . We are a bit low right now on Herbal teas, we need some that contain no Green Tea.  Also, we will be supplying refreshments for the Day of Peaceful Activities on Feb 21, so any extra snacks you can provide will not go to waste!

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Continuing call for submissions for the March issue of Reflections. The topic is The Three Refuges. What are your experiences with the concept and practice of refuge in your life? Can you see your dedication and trust in the practice growing? Does this prayerful dedication fit with your current life or with your faith of origin?  It may be prayer or not, but it is a commitment; what are your attitudes toward commitments? Do we confuse commitment with blind faith? Share your thoughts, poems, or excerpts from teachings that are meaningful to you. Deadline for submissions is Feb 28th. Please email to bsbc19067@yahoo.com. Thanks for your participation.

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Discussion -The Three Refuges, cont. – February 23, 2009

             Taking Refuge: The Decision to Become a Buddhist, cont.                        By Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche

Taking Refuge in the Buddha                                           submitted by Mare McClellan
          You take refuge in the Buddha not as a savior—not with the feeling that you have found something to make you secure—but as an example, as someone you can emulate. He is an example of an ordinary human being who saw through the deceptions of life, both on the ordinary and spiritual levels.
          The Buddha found the awakened state of mind by relating with the situations that existed around him: the confusion, chaos and insanity. He was able to look at those situations very clearly and precisely. He disciplined himself by working on his own mind, which was the source of all the chaos and confusion. Instead of becoming an anarchist and blaming society, he worked on himself and he attained what is known as bodhi, or enlightenment. The final and ultimate breakthrough took place, and he was able to teach and work with sentient beings without any inhibition.
          The example of the Buddha's life is applicable because he started out in basically the same kind of life that we lead, with the same confusion. But he renounced that life in order to find the truth. He went through a lot of religious "trips." He tried to work with the theistic world of the Hinduism of the time, and he realized there were a lot of problems with that. Then, instead of looking for an outside solution, he began working on himself. He began pulling up his own socks, so to speak, and he became a buddha. Until he did that, he was just a wishy-washy spiritual tripper. So taking refuge in the Buddha as an example is realizing that our case history is in fact completely comparable with his, and then deciding that we are going to follow his example and do what he did.
         One of the big steps in the Buddha's development was his realization that there is no reason we should believe in or expect anything greater than the basic inspiration that exists in us already. This is a nontheistic tradition: the Buddha gave up relying on any kind of divine principle that would descend on him and solve his problems. So taking refuge in the Buddha in no way means regarding him as a god. He was simply a person who practiced, worked, studied, and experienced things personally. With that in mind, taking refuge in the Buddha amounts to renouncing misconceptions about divine existence. Since we possess what is known as Buddha nature, enlightened intelligence, we don't have to borrow somebody else's glory. We are not all that helpless. We have our own resources already. A hierarchy of divine principles is irrelevant. It is very much up to us. Our individuality has produced our own world. The whole situation is very personal.

Taking Refuge in the Dharma
          Then we take refuge in the teachings of the Buddha, the dharma. We take refuge in the dharma as path. In this way we find that everything in our life situation is a constant process of learning and discovery. We do not regard some things as secular and some things as sacred, but everything is regarded as truth—which is the definition of dharma. Dharma is also passionlessness, which in this case means not grasping, holding on, or trying to possess—it means non-aggression.
          Usually, the basic thread that runs through our experience is our desire to have a purely goal-oriented process: everything, we feel, should be done in relation to our ambition, our competitiveness, our one-upmanship. That is what usually drives us to become greater professors, greater mechanics, greater carpenters, greater poets. Dharma—passionlessness—cuts through this small, goal-oriented vision, so that everything becomes purely a learning process. This permits us to relate with our lives fully and properly. So, taking refuge in the dharma as path, we develop the sense that it is worthwhile to walk on this earth. Nothing is regarded as just a waste of time; nothing is seen as a punishment or as a cause of resentment and complaint.
          This aspect of taking refuge is particularly applicable in America, where it is quite fashionable to blame everything on others and to feel that all kinds of elements in one's relationships or surroundings are unhealthy or polluted. We react with resentment. But once we begin to do that, there is no way. The world becomes divided into two sections: sacred and profane, or that which is good and proper and that which is regarded as a bad job or a necessary evil. Taking refuge in the dharma, taking a passionless approach, means that all of life is regarded as a fertile situation and a learning situation, always. Whatever occurs—pain or pleasure, good or bad, justice or injustice—is part of the learning process. So there is nothing to blame; everything is the path, everything is dharma.
       

            That passionless quality of dharma is an expression of nirvana—freedom, or openness. And once we have that approach, then any spiritual practice we might go through becomes a part of the learning situation, rather than merely ritualistic or spiritual, or a matter of religious obligation. The whole process becomes integral and natural.
            This approach involves a quality of directness and absence of deception—or we might even say absence of politeness. It means that we actually face the facts of life directly, personally. We do not have to come up with any padding of politeness or ordinary cheapness, but we actually experience life. And it is very ordinary life: pain is pain and pleasure is pleasure. We don't have to use another word or innuendo. Pain and pleasure and confusion—everything takes place very nakedly. We are simply ordinary. With our friends, with our relatives, in everything that goes on, we can afford to be very simple and direct and personal.

Taking Refuge in the Sangha

          Having taken refuge in the Buddha as an example and the dharma as path, then we take refuge in the sangha as companionship. That means that we have a lot of friends, fellow refugees, who are also confused, and who are working with the same guidelines as we are. Everybody is simultaneously struggling with their own discipline. As the members of the sangha experience a sense of dignity, and their sense of taking refuge in the Buddha, dharma, and sangha begins to evolve, they are able to act as a reminder and to provide feedback for each other. Your friends in the sangha provide a continual reference point which creates a continual learning process. They act as mirror reflections to remind you or warn you in living situations. That is the kind of companionship that is meant by sangha. We are all in the same boat; we share a sense of trust and a sense of larger-scale, organic friendship.
         So taking refuge in the sangha means being willing to work with your fellow students—your brothers and sisters in the dharma—while being independent at the same time. Nobody imposes his or her heavy notions on the rest of the sangha. Instead, each member of the sangha is an individual who is on the path in a different way from all the others. It is because of that that you get constant feedback of all kinds: negative and positive, encouraging and discouraging. These very rich resources become available to you when you take refuge in the sangha, the fellowship of students. The sangha is the community of people who have the perfect right to cut through your trips and feed you with their wisdom, as well as the perfect right to demonstrate their own neurosis and be seen through by you. The companionship within the sangha is a kind of clean friendship—without expectation, without demand, but at the same time, fulfilling.
         So we no longer regard ourselves as lone wolves who have such a good thing going on the side that we don't have to relate with anybody at all. At the same rime we must nor simply go along with the crowd. Either extreme is too secure. The idea is one of constantly opening, giving up completely. There is a lot of need for giving up.
         The discipline of taking refuge in the buddha, the dharma and the sangha is something more than a doctrinal or ritual thing: you are being physically infected with commitment to the buddhadharma; Buddhism is transmitted into your system. At that particular point, the energy, the power, and the blessing of basic sanity that has existed in the lineage for twenty-five hundred years, in an unbroken tradition and discipline from the time of Buddha, enters your system, and you finally become a full-fledged follower of buddhadharma. You are a living future buddha at that point.


Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche (1940-1987) was author of such classics as Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism, The Myth of Freedom, Born in Tibet and Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior. This article is adapted from The Heart of the Buddha, published by Shambhala Publications. ©1991 by Diana J. Mukpo.
 

 

 

How you can help your Sangha

Donate your used books on Buddhism to the Sangha Library

Bring goodies to eat to the Monday night discussions

Make a tax deductible donations to the Sangha , we are a non profit 501 ( c ) 3 organization

Donate food items to the food bank, use the cardboard box located in the foyer

Send articles or items of interest to share via email  to BSBC19067@yahoo.com

 

 Are you a Member of the Sangha? Membership, although not required, it is available to deepen your commitment to the Sangha . Forms are available from James Reis on any Monday night, or email us at BSBC19067@yahoo.com  and we can send a membership form  out to you. 

 

 

Buddhist Sangha of Bucks County 2009 Board of Directors:

Our Board

 

President,  Jim Hild –  jhild@csc.com

Vice-president,  James Reis – james237@comcast.net

Secretary, Edna Telep – e_telep@yahoo.com

Treasurer, Jim Hild -- jhild@csc.com

Marilyn Picciotti -- marilynnpicciotti@comcast.net

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